Grey’s Anatomy star James Pickens Jr. has opened up about his prostate cancer diagnosis and recovery, revealing how his wife of 42 years, singer Gina Taylor, helped him navigate concerns about intimacy after surgery. Diagnosed in April 2025, the 71-year-old actor also hopes his experience will encourage more men to get screened.

James Pickens Jr. says wife Gina Taylor eased his fears about intimacy after prostate cancer surgery

With more than half a dozen family members, including his father, having battled prostate cancer, Pickens was aware of his risk. Despite undergoing annual screenings and advocating for early detection for more than 20 years, receiving the diagnosis was still difficult.

As per People, James Pickens Jr. said, “Anytime you hear the ‘C’ word, there’s trepidation.” He added, “But I was as prepared as I could be. I had information and that brought solace to me.”

Pickens chose a radical prostatectomy over radiation and asked Grey’s Anatomy producers to reflect his experience through his character, Dr. Richard Webber. He described portraying Webber’s emotional journey as “liberating,” particularly because it explored vulnerability and the impact of treatment on relationships.

The actor also admitted that intimacy after surgery was a concern. However, Taylor reminded him that their relationship was built on more than physical intimacy.

“She’d say, ‘Honey, at the end of the day, that’s a lot of fun, but we’re in it for the long haul,'” he recalled. “It’s not what makes our relationship work as long as it has.”

His urologist also reassured him that sexual function could return, while Taylor helped him manage the emotional strain of his diagnosis.

“The biggest thing about cancer for me was trying to stay out of your head,” Pickens said. “She’s amazing. I wouldn’t have been able to take this journey without her.”

As Grey’s Anatomy enters its 23rd season, Webber will be cancer-free and face new challenges. Pickens said he is feeling well and will continue monitoring his health. Emphasizing the importance of early detection and treatment, he said, “Prostate cancer is one of the most treatable cancers if it’s detected early.”